New Year, New Glam: Resolutions for a Stylish Start to 2025
The clock has struck midnight, and it’s time to sparkle into the New Year with style and grace! For all the fashionistas and beauty lovers out there, this is your sign to set resolutions that match your energy. Whether you’re a trendsetter, beauty queen, or just someone who loves a little extra glam, here are some New Year’s resolutions from your girls to help you shine even brighter in 2025.
Upgrade Your Self-Care Routine
Self-care isn’t just about face masks and bubble baths—though those are essential! Make this year the one where you focus on total wellness. Treat yourself to weekly at-home spa days, invest in skincare that makes you glow, and don’t forget to hydrate (water is the real beauty elixir). Remember, confidence starts with feeling good from the inside out. If you don’t know where to start, check out our @shop.ltk link down below for some of our favorite products!
Master a Signature Look
Let 2025 be the year you perfect your go-to look! Whether it’s a bold red lip, flawless winged eyeliner, or perfectly curled hair, practice makes perfect. Dedicate time to experimenting with different styles and discover what makes you feel like your best self. Bonus points if you share your glam secrets with others.
Curate Your Dream Wardrobe
Out with the old and in with the glamorous! Clean out your closet and donate anything that doesn’t make you feel amazing. Then, build a wardrobe full of timeless pieces and trendy favorites that reflect your personality. Consider investing in high-quality basics, statement accessories, and versatile shoes to keep you ready for any occasion.
Focus on Inner Beauty, also!
Looking good is great, but feeling good is even better. Set goals to practice gratitude, spread kindness, and build confidence. Compliment others, write in a gratitude journal, and work on affirmations that make you feel unstoppable. Beauty isn’t just about appearances—it’s about the light you shine from within.
Here are some of our favorite resources for a little bit of self love guidance! **shameless pod plug
Make Your Goals a Reality
Do you dream of launching a beauty blog, starting a YouTube channel, or becoming a makeup artist? Turn those dreams into actionable goals. Create a vision board, break down your steps, and celebrate small wins along the way. This is your year to take control of your goals and make your passions a reality.
Don’t forget to tune into our podcast Well, I’ll Be Blonde wherever you get your podcasts!
Plan Regular GNOs
Stay connected with your besties and make time for fun. Schedule regular girls’ nights, whether it’s a themed pajama party, movie marathon, or shopping spree. Building strong friendships is one of the best forms of self-care—and it’s way more fun with a little sparkle.
Pro Tip: Always check nearby cities for exciting night out ideas!
2025 is your year to glow up and show up! From pampering yourself to chasing big dreams, these resolutions will keep you looking and feeling fabulous all year long. Remember, the most important accessory is your confidence—so wear it proudly. Cheers to a stylish, sparkling New Year!
Falling into Fall Fashion
This fall, we're drawn to the understated elegance of preppy Southern style. Imagine classic plaids, well-tailored blazers, and cozy knitwear in rich, autumnal colors. The focus is on timeless pieces that exude a refined yet relaxed vibe—think crisp button-down shirts layered under sweaters and sleek knee-high boots. It's all about combining comfort with a polished look, perfect for crisp days and cooler evenings. Embrace the season with effortless sophistication and a touch of Southern charm.
Jackets
As fall sweeps into the South, it’s time to find the perfect jacket to complement the season’s unique charm. Our favorite picks for fall jackets are crafted to balance warmth with the region’s mild temperatures. Imagine wrapping yourself in one of these that have been selected as the ideal for early mornings on the porch or afternoon strolls through leave-lined streets. For those cooler evenings by the fire, a lightweight quilted jacket or a stylish coated layer offers just the right amount of coziness without overheating. These jackets are designed with the South’s easygoing elegance in mind, seamlessly blending functionality with a touch of Southern flair, making them the perfect choice for crisp days and nights.
Shoes
From statement-making animal prints to timeless suede boots and edgy studded flats, this fall’s shoe trends offer something for everyone—combining style, comfort, and a bit of edge. Dark shades like brown or black add a rugged yet sophisticated vibe, ideal for transitioning between casual and more polished looks. Metallic accents add a glam touch to everyday looks and a focus on comfort make these a staple for both casual days and semi-formal outfits.
Accessories
Fall accessories this season combine both warmth and style. Brown bags in rich caramel and chocolate tones are a timeless choice, while those with horsebit hardware bring an elegant, equestrian-inspired touch. Shaped belts are making a statement, adding structure and edge to layered outfits. Oversized sunglasses add a dash of glamour, with yellow-tinted lenses giving a retro pop to autumn looks. Chunky scarves in thick knits or cozy cashmere blends are both functional and fashionable, and leather or suede gloves with unique detailing provide the perfect chic finish for crisp fall days.
Sweaters
Fall sweater trends in 2024 have a preppy, polished vibe with a modern twist. Think fitted, cable-knit sweaters in classic shades like navy, cream, and forest green, paired with varsity-inspired stripes and collegiate logos. Cardigans are sleek and buttoned-up, perfect for layering over crisp shirts or under blazers. Sweaters with sharp collars, embroidered crests, and subtle plaid patterns channel a prep-school aesthetic, while luxe fabrics like merino wool and cashmere keep the look refined. This season’s sweaters blend classic prep with contemporary tailoring for a chic, structured fall wardrobe.
A Regency Romance Revival Inspired by Netflix’ Bridgerton
In the past couple years, the world has found solace in the lush escapism of Netflix' hit series Bridgerton. Transporting viewers to the opulent Regency era, the show not only captivated with its drama and romance but also dazzled with its sumptuous visual aesthetic. From grand ballrooms to intricately designed estates, every frame of Bridgerton exudes elegance and sophistication. Now, fans are embracing the show's enchanting allure by incorporating its aesthetic into their own homes and wardrobes.
Bridgerton Inspired Home Decor Finds
Opulent Interiors: Channel the grandeur of the Bridgerton residences with opulent interiors characterized by ornate furniture, gilded accents, and luxurious fabrics. Think plush velvet sofas, chandeliers dripping with crystals, and intricate floral wallpaper to evoke the lavish ambiance of the Regency era.
Pastel Palette: Embrace the show's signature pastel palette with soft hues of powder blue, blush pink, and mint green. Incorporate these colors into your home decor through upholstery, drapery, and decorative accents to create a serene and romantic atmosphere reminiscent of the Bridgerton universe.
Floral Elegance: Flowers are a recurring motif in Bridgerton, symbolizing romance and beauty. Bring the essence of the show into your home with floral arrangements featuring roses, hydrangeas, and peonies. Display them in elegant vases or ornate floral containers to add a touch of timeless elegance to any room.
Regency-Inspired Furniture: Opt for furniture pieces that evoke the Regency era, such as intricately carved wooden chairs, tufted ottomans, and canopy beds adorned with flowing curtains. Mix and match antique finds with modern elements to create a curated yet eclectic look that pays homage to the show's aesthetic.
Whimsical Details: Pay attention to whimsical details that add charm and character to your space, such as delicate china teacups, vintage-inspired candelabras, and decorative birdcages. These subtle touches will transport you to the romantic world of Bridgerton while adding a unique flair to your home decor.
Below are links to some of our favorite finds!
Clothing and Accessories Fit for A Viscountess or Duchess
Regency-Inspired Silhouettes: Embrace the elegant silhouettes of the Regency era with empire-waist dresses, ruffled blouses, and voluminous skirts. Look for garments adorned with delicate lace, intricate embroidery, and pearl embellishments to capture the romantic spirit of Bridgerton.
Pastel Perfection: Incorporate the show's pastel palette into your wardrobe with soft shades of lavender, mint, and peach. Choose garments in lightweight fabrics like silk and chiffon for a romantic and ethereal look that echoes the enchanting aesthetics of Bridgerton.
Statement Accessories: Elevate your outfits with statement accessories inspired by the Regency era, such as pearl-drop earrings, cameo brooches, and embellished headbands. These timeless pieces will add a touch of sophistication and glamour to any ensemble, evoking the refined style of the characters in Bridgerton.
Floral Prints: Embrace the romanticism of floral prints reminiscent of the English countryside with dresses, blouses, and skirts adorned with delicate blooms. Opt for vintage-inspired patterns featuring roses, daisies, and peonies to capture the whimsical charm of Bridgerton in your wardrobe.
Below are links to some of our favorite finds!
Whether you want to spruce up your home with these regency inspired finds or you are looking to add a bit of glamour and opulence to your everyday wardrobe, these finds are sure to invoke the romance that we all love from the ton. If you need us, we will be binging part one this weekend (don’t need us, ok?)!
The Benefits of the Southern Summer Wedding
Planning a wedding in the South during the summer months offers a unique and enchanting experience filled with warmth, hospitality, and timeless charm.When it comes to planning your special day, choosing the right season for your wedding can make a significant difference in the overall experience. One popular choice among couples is a summer wedding, and for good reason! One of the Be Blondes, Emily, chose June for her wedding back in 2021! We will be looking back at her wedding and why summer gave the perfect backdrop for her special day.
Southern Hospitality
Hosting your wedding in the South means embracing the legendary hospitality that the region is known for. From gracious hosts to friendly locals, you can expect a warm welcome and a memorable experience for you and your guests.
Breathtaking Outdoor Settings
The South is home to picturesque plantations, charming historic estates, and lush gardens that provide stunning backdrops for your ceremony and reception. Imagine exchanging vows under the canopy of ancient oak trees or dancing the night away under a starlit sky—it's a romantic and unforgettable setting for your special day.
Emily’s venue was Legacy Acres in Conway, AR.
Extended Daylight
Summer days are known for their longer daylight hours, giving you more flexibility in planning your wedding timeline. Whether you prefer a daytime ceremony or a late-night reception, you can take advantage of the extended daylight to capture unforgettable moments and create a seamless event flow.
Culinary Delights
A summer Southern wedding wouldn't be complete without indulging in the region's cuisine. Treat your guests to a feast of Southern favorites! Emily’s guests enjoyed shrimp and grits, corned beef Reubens, and black-eyed pea cornbread bites. The culinary experience alone is worth celebrating!
Guest Availability
Summer is a popular time for vacations and social gatherings, making it easier for your guests to attend your wedding. With school holidays and long weekends, loved ones have more flexibility to travel and celebrate with you, ensuring a higher attendance rate and a vibrant atmosphere.
Seasonal Blooms
Summer is a time when flowers are in full bloom, offering an array of vibrant colors and fragrant scents to enhance your wedding decor. From elegant bouquets to stunning centerpieces, you'll have access to a diverse selection of flowers to complement your theme and color scheme.
Honeymoon Opportunities
Following your summer wedding, you and your partner can embark on a romantic honeymoon getaway to popular destinations that offer ideal weather conditions during the summer months. Whether you dream of relaxing on a tropical beach or exploring a vibrant city, summer provides endless possibilities for your post-wedding adventure.
Emily and Matt chose Jamaica for their honeymoon!
A summer wedding offers a myriad of benefits, from favorable weather and stunning venues to blooming flowers and extended daylight. Embrace the warmth and charm of the season as you celebrate your love and create unforgettable memories with your partner, family, and friends.
For more details about Emily’s wedding, check out this article from Weddings in Arkansas!
The Be Blondes’ Book Club- May
The Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides
Accused of shooting her husband six times and then taking a vow of silence? This book has twists and turns you’ll never see coming!
But why does she not speak? -Euripides/Alcestis
“Alicia Berenson’s life is seemingly perfect. A famous painter married to an in-demand fashion photographer, she lives in a grand house with big windows overlooking a park in one of London’s most desirable areas. One evening her husband Gabriel returns home late from a fashion shoot, and Alicia shoots him five times in the face, and then never speaks another word.
Alicia’s refusal to talk, or give any kind of explanation, turns a domestic tragedy into something far grander, a mystery that captures the public imagination and casts Alicia into notoriety. The price of her art skyrockets, and she, the silent patient, is hidden away from the tabloids and spotlight at the Grove, a secure forensic unit in North London.
Theo Faber is a criminal psychotherapist who has waited a long time for the opportunity to work with Alicia. His determination to get her to talk and unravel the mystery of why she shot her husband takes him down a twisting path into his own motivations—a search for the truth that threatens to consume him....”
Goodreads. (n.d.). The silent patient. Goodreads. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40097951-the-silent-patient?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=jKVptibP0u&rank=1
The Southern Girl’s Favorite Cocktails
Let me paint you a picture of a Southern girl and her favorite cocktail.
In the heart of the South, there's a charm that exudes from every porch swing and magnolia tree. And amidst the warm hospitality and sweet as tea accents, there's often a signature cocktail that captures the essence of Southern living.
For a Southern girl, selecting her favorite cocktail isn't just about the drink itself; it's about the experience, the memories, and the tradition that comes with it. It's a reflection of her personality, her roots, and the moments she holds dear.
Now, close your eyes and imagine this blonde belle. She's graceful, with a smile that could light up a room, and she knows how to make you feel right at home. When it comes to her favorite cocktail, it's not just a drink—it's a piece of her identity.
Picture her sitting on her front porch swing and in her hand, she holds a tall glass filled with a classic Mint Julep. The scent of fresh mint mingles with the breeze, and with every sip, she's transported to a memory of watching the horses outside with her grandaddy.
Or perhaps she's at a backyard barbecue, surrounded by friends and family, laughter filling the air. In this setting, her go-to drink might be a refreshing glass of sweet tea spiked with a generous splash of bourbon—a concoction known affectionately as the Southern Sweet Tea Bourbon Cocktail. It's the perfect blend of Southern hospitality and a little bit of sass, just as any Southern woman is herself.
So y’all, here’s a list of our favorite Southern women cocktails and their recipes!
Mint Julep
Ingredients:
2 oz (60ml) bourbon whiskey
1/2 oz (15ml) simple syrup (you can adjust the sweetness to your liking)
8-10 fresh mint leaves, plus a sprig for garnish
Crushed ice
Instructions:
In a julep cup or old-fashioned glass, gently muddle the mint leaves and simple syrup together. Be careful not to over-muddle, as it can make the mint taste bitter.
Fill the glass with crushed ice, packing it down gently.
Pour the bourbon over the ice.
Stir gently to mix the ingredients and chill the drink.
Top off the glass with more crushed ice, forming a small mound on top.
Garnish with a sprig of fresh mint.
Optionally, you can add a straw for sipping.
Ranch Water
Ingredients:
2 oz (60ml) tequila blanco
1 oz (30ml) fresh lime juice
Top off with Topo Chico (a popular sparkling mineral water from Texas)
Ice
Optional: lime wedge for garnish
Instructions:
Fill a highball glass with ice cubes.
Pour the tequila blanco and fresh lime juice over the ice.
Top off the glass with Topo Chico sparkling water.
Give it a gentle stir to mix the ingredients.
Optionally, garnish with a lime wedge on the rim of the glass.
Serve and enjoy your refreshing Ranch Water!
Spicy Bloody Mary
Ingredients:
1 1/2 oz (45ml) vodka
3 oz (90ml) tomato juice
1/2 oz (15ml) fresh lemon juice
1/2 oz (15ml) fresh lime juice
2-3 dashes hot sauce (adjust to taste)
2-3 dashes Worcestershire sauce
Pinch of celery salt
Pinch of black pepper
Pinch of smoked paprika
Pinch of cayenne pepper (adjust to desired spice level)
Ice
Garnishes: Celery stalk, lemon or lime wedge, olives, pickles, bacon, jalapeño slices, etc.
Instructions:
In a shaker, combine vodka, tomato juice, fresh lemon juice, fresh lime juice, hot sauce, Worcestershire sauce, celery salt, black pepper, smoked paprika, and cayenne pepper.
Add ice to the shaker and shake well to combine and chill the mixture.
Strain the mixture into a highball glass filled with ice.
Garnish with your choice of celery stalk, lemon or lime wedge, olives, pickles, bacon, jalapeño slices, or any other desired garnishes.
Optionally, rim the glass with celery salt or a mixture of salt and spices for extra flavor.
Serve and enjoy your spicy Bloody Mary!
Hurricane
Ingredients:
2 oz (60 ml) light rum
2 oz (60 ml) dark rum
1 oz (30 ml) passion fruit juice
3/4 oz (22 ml) freshly squeezed lime juice
1 oz (30 ml) orange juice
1/4 oz (7 ml) grenadine syrup
Ice
Orange slice and cherry, for garnish
Instructions:
Fill a shaker with ice.
Pour in the light rum, dark rum, passion fruit juice, lime juice, orange juice, and grenadine syrup.
Shake well until the mixture is chilled.
Strain the mixture into a hurricane glass filled with ice.
Garnish with an orange slice and a cherry.
Serve and enjoy your refreshing Hurricane cocktail!
Transfusion
Ingredients:
2 oz (60 ml) vodka
3 oz (90 ml) ginger ale
1 1/2 oz (45 ml) grape juice
Ice
Lime wedge, for garnish
Instructions:
Fill a highball glass with ice.
Pour in the vodka.
Add the ginger ale and grape juice.
Stir gently to combine.
Garnish with a lime wedge on the rim of the glass.
Serve and enjoy your refreshing Transfusion cocktail!
Southern Sweet Tea
Ingredients:
2 oz (60 ml) bourbon whiskey
4 oz (120 ml) sweet tea (chilled)
1/2 oz (15 ml) freshly squeezed lemon juice
Lemon slices, for garnish
Mint sprigs, for garnish
Ice cubes
Instructions:
Prepare the sweet tea by brewing your favorite black tea and adding sugar while it's still warm. Let it cool to room temperature, then chill it in the refrigerator until cold.
Fill a glass with ice cubes.
Pour the bourbon whiskey over the ice.
Add the chilled sweet tea to the glass.
Squeeze in the fresh lemon juice.
Stir gently to combine the ingredients.
Garnish with lemon slices and mint sprigs.
Serve and enjoy your Southern Sweet Tea Bourbon Cocktail!
Fuzzy Navel
Ingredients:
1 1/2 oz (45 ml) peach schnapps
4 oz (120 ml) orange juice
Ice cubes
Orange slice, for garnish (optional)
Instructions:
Fill a highball glass with ice cubes.
Pour the peach schnapps into the glass.
Top with orange juice.
Stir gently to combine the ingredients.
Garnish with an orange slice if desired.
Serve and enjoy your delicious Fuzzy Navel cocktail!
Aperol Spritz
Ingredients:
3 parts Prosecco (about 90ml)
2 parts Aperol (about 60ml)
1 splash of soda water
Ice cubes
Orange slice, for garnish
Instructions:
Fill a wine glass (or a large glass) with ice cubes.
Pour the Prosecco over the ice.
Add the Aperol.
Give it a gentle stir to mix the Aperol and Prosecco together.
Top it off with a splash of soda water.
Garnish with an orange slice.
Serve and enjoy!
Spicy Watermelon Margarita
Ingredients:
2 cups cubed seedless watermelon
2 oz (60ml) silver tequila
1 oz (30ml) triple sec or orange liqueur
1 oz (30ml) fresh lime juice
1-2 teaspoons agave nectar or simple syrup (adjust to taste)
2-3 slices of fresh jalapeño (adjust to desired spice level)
Ice cubes
Salt or sugar for rimming the glasses (optional)
Lime wedges and watermelon slices for garnish
Instructions:
If desired, rim the glasses with salt or sugar.
In a blender, combine cubed watermelon, tequila, triple sec, lime juice, agave nectar or simple syrup, and slices of fresh jalapeño.
Blend until smooth. Taste the mixture and adjust sweetness or spiciness if needed by adding more agave nectar, lime juice, or jalapeño.
Fill the rimmed glasses with ice cubes.
Pour the spicy watermelon margarita mixture over the ice in each glass.
Garnish with lime wedges and watermelon slices.
Serve immediately and enjoy your spicy watermelon margaritas!
No matter the occasion, one thing is certain: for a Southern girl, her favorite cocktail isn't just a drink—it's a taste of home, a nod to tradition, and a celebration of the Southern way of life. So, whether she's sipping her drink of choice on a lazy afternoon or raising a glass at her best friend’s wedding, you can bet that her favorite cocktail is as timeless and beloved as the Southern charm that flows through her veins. Cheers, y'all!
Tune into Well, I’ll Be Blonde wherever you get your podcasts on Fridays at 10 am CST!
The Be Blondes’ Guide to the Masters Weekend
It's one of our favorite weekends of the year—Masters Weekend! There's something truly special about the traditions of the Masters and Augusta National. Perhaps it's the exclusivity of the event that adds to its allure, but every year, we're hopeful for a ticket through the lottery! If you're like us this year and weren't able to snag a ticket, don't worry. We've got your ultimate guide to experiencing the Masters right from the comfort of your home!
Fairway Faire
No Masters-themed party is complete without the perfect food and drink selection! Start with the iconic pimento cheese sandwiches (recipe linked here) and the egg salad sandwich (recipe linked here). For a fun twist on the barbeque sandwiches, try serving a BBQ dip like this recipe! And of course, if you know the Masters, you know about the famous Azalea cocktail that patrons have been sipping on and spectating with for years. Pro tip: In recent years, fans have been able to purchase The Taste of the Masters box to enjoy the food right from the source!
The 19th Hole
To add to the allure of watching from home, set up the perfect tablescape! We love the idea of customizable foam cups with your family’s name. Pair them with green plates (linked here) and add a touch of fun with Masters-themed cocktail napkins. For an extra wow factor, consider using drink stirrers featuring symbols of the Masters! Decorate your table with yellow tulips and azaleas, a faux grass table runner, and a playful spray of golf balls and tees.
Augusta Attire
Who says you can’t dress to impress, even if you won’t be at the actual tournament? Good news is, we've got a style guide for what to wear the whole weekend! And for some added flair, why not consider buying a white caddy uniform like the one linked here? Bonus points for authenticity!
Here’s to daydreaming of green jackets for now! The Masters starts this Thursday, and we will definitely be tuning in!
Be sure to tune into Well, I’ll Be Blonde wherever you get your podcasts on Fridays at 10 am!
Blonde Ambition: Your Ultimate Summer Wedding Style Guide
Wedding season is quickly approaching and we have our picks for all kinds of budgets and attire!
White Tie
White tie wedding attire for women is the most formal dress code, reserved for the most prestigious and elegant occasions. Typically, women's white tie attire includes a floor-length evening gown featuring luxurious fabrics like silk or satin. It's essential to adhere closely to traditional white tie norms, as this dress code demands the utmost elegance and sophistication.
Here are our picks!
Amazon Gown $52.99
Sau Lee Sabrina Gown $550
Black Tie
Black-tie attire is a step down from white-tie; however, ladies still will be dressing their best in a floor-length gown in fabrics such as silk or organza. If pant suits are more your thing- opt for an elegant cut and style that flatters and wows!
Here are our picks!
Amazon Formal Evening Gown $45.99
Formal or Black-Tie Optional
As the dress code name suggests, 'black-tie optional' is less formal than black-tie. Although very similar to black-tie, with formal wear, a lady is allowed to wear a gown or dress that shows her ankles, which is not true for black-tie attire.
Here are our picks!
Amazon One-Shoulder Gown $39.99
Cocktail
Cocktail attire is a very popular option for wedding season! Rather than a full-length gown, women should opt for a midi-length, tea-length, or knee-length dress. With cocktail attire, you can toe the line between elegant and comfortable! This attire is great for an elegant, outdoor wedding, especially in the southern summer heat!
Here are our picks!
Amazon Ruched Midi Dress $52.87
Festive
This is a newer dress code that is gaining popularity for the summer weddings! Festive wedding attire offers an opportunity to embrace joy and celebration through clothing choices. This dress code encourages vibrant colors, playful patterns, and creative styling. Women can opt for dresses or separates in bold hues or festive prints, such as florals or geometric designs. Fabrics like chiffon, silk, or satin with a bit of sheen add to the celebratory vibe!
Here are our picks!
Rios Maxi Dress $218
Destination
Destination tropical wedding attire for women is all about embracing the relaxed yet elegant vibe of a beach or tropical setting! Lightweight, breathable fabrics such as cotton, linen, or chiffon are ideal for the warm climate. Dresses in vibrant colors or tropical prints are popular choices, ranging from flowing maxi dresses to chic sundresses. Consider dresses with lightweight layers or breezy silhouettes that capture the essence of the destination.
Here are our picks!
Two-piece Floral Set $34.99
Cheers to the happy couples!
Be sure to tune into Well, I’ll Be Blonde wherever you get your podcasts on Fridays at 10 am!
The Be Blondes’ Book Club- April
The Be Blondes are starting a book club, y’all! At the end of the month, the girls will be breaking down our monthly books on the podcast. If you haven’t read this month’s pick yet, go ahead and add it to your list and be sure to tune into Well, I’ll Be Blonde on Fridays at 10 am CST!
Tom Lake by Ann Patchett
“The Loveliest Book You’ll Read This Year”
Tom Lake is a novel about love, family, and growing up set to the background of a cherry orchard.
“In the spring of 2020, Lara’s three daughters return to the family's orchard in Northern Michigan. While picking cherries, they beg their mother to tell them the story of Peter Duke, a famous actor with whom she shared both a stage and a romance years before at a theater company called Tom Lake. As Lara recalls the past, her daughters examine their own lives and relationship with their mother, and are forced to reconsider the world and everything they thought they knew”
“Tom Lake.” Goodreads, Goodreads, www.goodreads.com/book/show/63241104-tom-lake?ref=rae_2. Accessed 2 Apr. 2024.
The Be Blondes’ Guide to the Perfect Morning Routine
Every Southern girl knows the importance of starting the day on the right foot. Doing so begins with a quality morning routine!
The perfect morning routine begins with water! While we brew our favorite coffee, we make sure to get a head start on our water intake. Did you know that drinking water first thing in the morning boosts your metabolism for the day? After the coffee we brewed in our French press (we are linking our favorite from Amazon here) is ready, it is time to sit down and do some morning reflection. We like to take this time to read our devotionals and spend some time with Jesus! Our favorite devotionals are You’re Going to Make It, Devotions from the Front Porch, and The Joy of My Heart.
After our coffee and devotionals are over, it is time to get ready for a workout! Pilates or a quick run on the treadmill is a great way to get some endorphins going. As Elle Woods says, “Exercise gives you endorphins, endorphins make you happy, and happy people don’t shoot their husbands (they just don’t.)” We all need a little boost of happiness in the morning and blasting our favorite workout playlist certainly adds to that joy!
Finally, after a shower, it is time for our skin prep and makeup for the day! Rollers go in the hair (a Southern girl knows that the higher the hair, the closer to the Lord), and our favorite perfume is spritzed. Our go-to scents are Mojave Ghost from Byredo and Eden Sparkling Lychee from Kayali. Last on the to-do list is to pick an outfit and we are ready to seize the day!
Having a morning routine can set the tone for your entire day and we believe it sets you up for success. Therefore, we strive to start every day off by putting our best foot forward and making ourselves and our morning routines a priority!
Be sure to tune into the Well, I’ll Be Blonde podcast on Fridays at 10 am CST wherever you get your podcasts!
The Be Blondes’ Vacation Guide: Big Cedar Lodge
Big Cedar Lodge is a vacation property in Ridgedale, MO and sits on the scenic Table Rock Lake! We have been visiting Big Cedar Lodge for nearly two decades, and it is a family favorite of ours at anytime of the year. Apart from being one of the most stunning locations in the Ozark mountains, Big Cedar Lodge is home to some of the best activities that the whole family can enjoy. We are going to be breaking down our favorite things to do at our home away from home.
New Years Eve at Big Cedar Lodge
Ok so if you aren’t doing Big Cedar for NYE, you are surely missing out! The girls have been going to the New Year’s Eve party at the Big Cedar convention center for years, and it is one of the most fun parties of the year. The live band, food, and champagne toast with fireworks at midnight make for a truly special way to start the New Year off with the people you hold nearest and dearest.
Big Cedar Lodge Restaurants
Y’all know a Southern Girl likes to eat, right? Well, the restaurants at Big Cedar are top-of-the-line! No morning is complete on the property without coffee from the Truman Cafe, and you might as well grab some gravy and biscuits while you are there. The pinnacle of a Big Cedar vacation is dinner and drinks at the Worman House. What can we say, we like a fancy dinner! After dinner, head on down to the Buzzard Bar at Devil’s Pool for drinks with the Singing Cowboy. You are guaranteed to have a good time!
Things To Do
There is no shortage of fun things to do around Big Cedar! Aside from numerous pools, hot tubs, and the lazy river- some of the most fun you can have at Big Cedar Lodge is in the water! Table Rock Lake on Big Cedar Lodge is host to numerous water activities. Rent a pontoon boat for the day and go inner-tubing or paddle boat along the marina if that is more your speed! Also, Big Cedar is known for wonderful fishing for the fishermen in your life. Beyond all of the fun you can have on the water, there is also Fun Mountain complete with obstacle course, bumper cars, bowling, and more. One of our favorite activities on the property is mini golf which culminates with a putt into the mouth of a big bass! There are plenty of more exciting things that the resort offers and you can find the full list of events at the link.
Top of the Rock
One of our favorite excursions is to Top of the Rock. If you are an avid golfer, the Payne’s Valley course is top-of-the-line and designed by Tiger Woods! You will not want to miss the Lost Canyon Cave golf cart tour. Make sure you grab one of their exclusive cocktails at the Bat Bar that is inside the cave! To culminate your trip to Top of the Rock- have dinner at Osage. If you can swing it, make sure your reservation is during sunset so that you can experience the playing of the bagpipes and the firing of the cannon as the sun sets. It truly will take your breath away!
All in all, we love this place so much and cannot wait for the many more years of fun to come!
P.S. Please enjoy these lovely memories (some with a regrettable hair color on Emily!).
The Be Blondes’ Ultimate Spring Break Playlist
The Be Blondes’ favorite songs that pair well with Spring Break sunshine!
Hey y’all, Spring Break is here, and the Be Blondes have the ultimate playlist for driving down 30A with the windows rolled down or for listening while you sip a ranch water on a pontoon! No trip is complete without a curated playlist, and we have added all of our favorites that pair well with sunshine and suntans. Happy listening, blondes!
Celebrating International Women’s Month- Our Favorite Southern Women
We are rounding up our favorite Southern Women in honor of International Women’s Month!
The saying goes…”Southern women are like whiskey in a teacup- beautiful on the outside and strong on the inside.”
Undoubtedly, being a Southern woman is something to be proud of, and we are happy to stand alongside some pretty incredible Southern women. In honor of National Women’s Month, we are discussing some of our favorite girls from the South!
Dolly Parton
You can’t really write a blog about Southern women and not include the Queen herself! We love Dolly Parton for being unapologetically herself. Also, Dolly is a champion for child literacy which makes us love her even more!
Southern Roots: Tennessee
Oprah Winfrey
The first lady of daytime television is a powerful Southern woman! Oprah’s daytime show ran for 25 years which is an incredible accomplishment.
Southern Roots: Mississippi
Rosalynn Carter
Her fierce advocation for mental health makes this former First Lady one of our favorite Southern ladies! Also, Jimmy and Rosalynn’s love story is one for the ages.
Southern Roots: Georgia
Sara Blakely
Every Southern woman knows the value in a pair of Spanx! Women everywhere thank you, Sara!
Southern Roots: Florida
Reese Witherspoon
We absolutely adore, Reese! Her clothing line, Draper James, is one of our favorites. If you haven’t picked up one of her “What Would Dolly Do?” t-shirts, what are you doing?
Southern Roots: Louisiana
Beyoncé
Who doesn’t love Beyoncé? Her new album drops this month and we are already loving “Texas Hold Em” so much so we cannot wait for the rest of Act II.
Southern Roots: Texas
Farrah Fawcett
I mean, talk about iconic! Farrah Fawcett’s blonde hair is what dreams are made of for us Southern women. The bigger the hair- the closer to Jesus, right?
Southern Roots: Texas
Faith Hill
She sure has come a long way from Star, Mississippi! Blasting Faith Hill and dancing around the kitchen is arguably, the best way to spend a Saturday morning.
Southern Roots: Mississippi
Jessica Simpson
Okay, so if you haven’t read Open Book, go order it on Amazon immediately! If you don’t love Jessica already, you will after reading her autobiography. Excuse me while I go rewatch Newlyweds: Nick and Jessica!
Southern Roots: Texas
Laura Bush
Talk about a girl’s girl! This former First Lady was a huge advocate for women’s rights as well as literacy and education. Her love for reading likely inspired her daughter, Jenna Bush Hager’s propensity for reading! We love her book club with the Today Show!
Southern Roots: Texas
Jennifer Garner
We truly think Jennifer Garner is America’s Sweetheart! Ben Affleck, who? Never could you have convinced a woman that she should wish to be thirty, but somehow Jennifer made us all want to be thirty, flirty, and thriving!
Southern Roots: Texas
Tammy Wynette
Thanks to Tammy, all of us Southern women know to “stand by your man.” Most of the time you can’t live with them, and you can’t live without them, either.
Southern Roots: Mississippi
There are plenty of other Southern women that we adore- namely our mamas and our grandmothers! If you ever want to peek into who made us who we are all you have to do is have a conversation with our moms. They are our inspiration for everything we do!
“Every woman’s success should be inspiration to another; we are strongest when we cheer each other on.” Serena Williams
Happy International Women’s Month!
Be sure to tune into the Be Blondes’ podcast Well, I’ll Be Blonde wherever you get your podcasts!
The Southern Girl’s Must-See Movie Guide
Grab your popcorn and a glass of sweet tea because we are breaking down the Southern girl’s must-see movies!
Pop the popcorn and pour yourself a glass of sweet tea because we have the guide to the movies that every girl has to see! These movies are sure to bring you some Southern comfort for when you want to cozy up on the couch with your favorite blanket (and favorite person, too). If you haven’t seen one of the movies on this list, go ahead and add to your watchlist for this weekend!
Steel Magnolias
Um, hello! Dolly Parton? Need we say more?
“I would rather have 30 minutes of wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special.”
Southern Setting: Chinquapin Parish, LA
The Help
You can’t help but fall in love with Miss Skeeter!
“See courage isn’t about being brave. Courage is daring to do what is right despite the weakness of our flesh.”
Southern Setting: Jackson, MS
Hope Floats
Break out the tissues for this one- we love this sweet romance! Also, could Birdee be a cuter name?
“Beginnings are scary, endings are usually sad, but it is the middle that counts the most.”
Southern Setting: Smithville, Texas
Driving Miss Daisy
Morgan Freeman’s character is so endearing in this movie. You can’t help but love this friendship!
“You’re my best friend, Hoke.”
Southern Setting: Atlanta, GA
The Notebook
Grab your tissues and be prepared for the sweetest love story that we all can’t help but long for!
“I want all of you forever, everyday.”
Southern Setting: Seabrook, SC
Father of the Bride
Every little girl dreams of her wedding day and every daddy dreads it! This movie definitely pulls on your heartstrings and we love Steve Martin, always.
“I used to think a wedding was a simple affair. Boy and girl meet, they fall in love, he buys a ring, she buys a dress, they say I do. I was wrong. That’s getting married. A wedding is an entirely different proposition”
Not So Southern Setting: This movie takes place in CA, but we had to add it to the list!
The Big Easy
This thriller romance is sure to spice up date night with a creole flair!
“You’re a cop for God’s sake! You’re supposed to uphold the law!”
Southern Setting: New Orleans, LA
9 to 5
Another classic Dolly Parton movie all about sticking it to the man! Let’s go girls!
“If you ever say another word about me or make another indecent proposal, I'm gonna get that gun of mine... And I'm gonna change you from a rooster to a hen with one shot!”
Not So Southern Setting: Another California movie, but Dolly Parton is in it so it counts as Southern, right?
Sweet Home Alabama
Reese is self proclaimed “whiskey in a teacup” and this movie proves it! This movie is a Southern girl’s classic romcom and we can’t get enough of “felony Melanie.”
“"You expect me to tell you look good? What, did they run out of soap at the Piggly Wiggly since I left?"
Southern Setting: Greenville, AL
Friday Night Lights
Every Southern girl loves football (maybe just for the tailgates) and this movie does not disappoint!
“Can you live in that moment as best you can, with clear eyes, and love in your heart, with joy in your heart? If you can do that gentleman - you're perfect!”
Southern Setting: Dillon, TX
Walk the Line
Another classic Reese Witherspoon movie all about Johnny and June. This movie will break your heart and put it back together!
“I'm asking you to marry me. I love you, June. Now I know I said and done a lotta things, that I hurt you, but I promise, I'll never do that again.”
Southern Setting: Memphis, TN
Something to Talk About
Hell hath no fury like a Southern woman scorned! Clearly we can’t get enough of Dennis Quaid and Julia Roberts is always a romcom go-to.
“And I just don't have time for the nervous breakdown I deserve, so please, don't ask me to stop and think.”
Southern Setting: Beaufort, SC
After you finish watching these Southern classics, tune into the Well, I’ll Be Blonde podcast for more things Southern and of course, blonde!
The Start of Something New
It all begins with an idea.
Let’s just go for it! And we did, so here we are! I was driving home from work one day, listening to one of my favorite podcasts when I thought to myself, “why am I not doing this?” Which then turned into me texting Lily and saying, “Let’s start a podcast for girls like us who don’t have sisters and like basic southern girl things.” Being a girl is hard, being a girl in your twenties is even harder! We want to tell girls all of the things I wish somebody would have told me when I was twenty and know now. Lily being right at the beginning of her twenties, offers another perspective.
We know the value of a good charcuterie board, the art of setting the perfect table, and the do’s and don’ts of meeting your maybe future in-laws for the first time. If this sounds like something you are interested in- Well, I’ll Be, Blonde!
Our first episode is coming soon, so be sure to follow our Instagram for exciting updates!